When I stopped waiting for the magic, healing happened.

When my previous therapist invited me to imagine murdering someone, I knew I needed another therapist.

Haje Jan Kamps
6 min readJan 4, 2021

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My previous therapist’s visualization exercise to help me deal with my history of being bullied involved imagining holding the main bully underwater.

Drowning, he said, because people can’t speak when they are drowning

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Haje Jan Kamps

Writer, startup pitch coach, enthusiastic dabbler in photography.